Essays

Relationships are how we relate to others. We have relationships with everyone we know and those who are   close to us. Each and every interaction we have with   another person is the act of relating. If we have a problem   relating to others, it affects our ability to have supportive relationships. We have to ask ourselves if our relationships   are supportive, and if they are not, then ask why they are not.                                         

Everyone wants the perfect romance or marriage, but not everyone looks at the mechanics of how to have one.  If we fail to have supportive relationships in our life, how can we have the "perfect love" relationships? Through the   act of supporting, we honour and validate who the other person is. This is turn, validates who we are. So, both   are supported; no one loses; no egos are involved; and,   so doing, we honour the relationship. This is what it means to have a supportive relationship. This is the desired goal. Now, how do we accomplish it?        

Our conduct patterns, 'positive' or 'negative' get set as we grow up. In order to clear a problem, one must identify the original cause which created a behavioral pattern, move through the experience of that situation and experience the emotions associated with it.

The healing process is a time when we roust be loving to the self. If we beat up the self about the experience which had caused us harm or our past reaction to it, then we cannot heal. In being loving to the self, we validate

What we had experienced at that time.

Our emotions are always valid. So, it is important for us to do this self-validation in order to heal. Love is the energy which helps us heal-whether we give this love to ourselves or receive it from another. Loving relations start with the self. When we look at having supportive relationship in our life, why not start with the self?

Because that is where love comes from. This is what transforms our relationships and our lives. We must love the self first. And we cannot do that until we have healed and become whole. Spiritually we must rise, and our spiritual quotient must be high.

For, it is not about what we can receive from love, but what we can contribute or give to love. The more we give, the more are the returns.

An Approach to Conclude the Essay

Most candidates are confused how to end or conclude an essay. It is, indeed, a tough task to give a proper Conclusion to an essay. It happens just because candidates had little knowledge of the way or the approach of conclusion. In fact, an essay is a discussion or discourse on any topic which aim towards the betterment of the society or the mankind. This fact, in Itself, forms the foundation of any conclusion.

Whenever you write an essay, start thinking about how you are going to evolve the body of your essay and where you have to link it in the end. Suppose you are given a topic 'Science - a boon or a curse', then start thinking its utility for the mankind just from the beginning. As the topic asks you to discuss the negative effects of Science as well, do analyze them one by one, taking account of each of these in brief. Note down the points in favour as well as against Science. Soon you will know that it has more advantages than the harms. So ready your text in a way to link it to a Conclusion that will uphold the Science.

Thus, it is good to jot down the points thought and noted down previously in order to give a good conclusion to the essay.